102 - The Rise in Interabled Couples

First, how do you feel about the word interabled? Let me know at [email protected].

You see, 1-in-4 U.S. adults – or about 61 million Americans – have a disability according to the CDC. With mental illness and invisible disabilities on the rise, the statistics of people living with disabilities are probably greater. If you’re out there dating, the likelihood of having a partner with a disability is higher than it has ever been. If 1-in-4 people have a disability, it only makes sense that interabled dating and interabled relationships are normal and 

Things are beginning to change as we begin to break down the stereotypes in regards to interabled relationships. For example, Hannah Aylward and Shane Burcaw, who has a genetic disorder called spinal muscular atrophy, have a popular YouTube channel titled “Squirmy and Grubs.”

Stereotypes in Need of Further Deconstruction 

The burden myth - distribution of labor within a relationship is unique and ever-changing. Naturally, all couples support each other in many ways – physically, emotionally and spiritually.

A couple is a couple- consider seeking out insight from other couples of all abilities – able-bodied, interabled and disabled. 

Prioritize Self care - Not getting it right doesn’t mean not getting it at all - show grace 

Keep in mind that relationships are hard, maybe they aren’t that hard when you’re with the right person (who may or may not have a disability).

Resources

Why Interabled Relationships are the New Normal

Check out our Dating Memberships:

Dating Made Easier (for all people wanting to date) - is a monthly membership for anyone (with or without disabilities) who wants support and guidance in dating skills and getting the RESULTS you want in dating and relationships. Click here to learn more.

Supporting Dating and Relationships membership (for special educators and professionals in disability services) - is for professionals in the disability field who are looking for training and resources to effectively help students/people with disabilities in developing dating and relationship skills. Click here to learn more.

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