Dating, Relationships, and Disability

Dating, Relationships, and Disability

Hosted by: Kathy O'Connell

We offer strategies, encouragement, and mindset tips on dating with a disability. We talk about how to navigate sexual ableism, focus on your power to attract, and develop happy and healthy relationships.

Episodes

182 - Belief + Action = Results

When dating with a disability, believing "I am a worthy partner with a lot to contribute" becomes foundational. This mindset influences everything from dating profiles to conversation styles. Those who genuinely see...
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181 - How to Not Give Up

Resilience isn't just about surviving the dating scene—it's about transforming challenges into strengths. Your life experiences have shaped you into someone who can adapt and thrive in difficult situations. When...
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180 - Confidence in Everything BUT Dating

The Confidence Gap You're confident in your career, friendships, and personal growth, moving with assured grace. Yet in dating, you second-guess every move. This contrast isn't uncommon, but understanding its roots...
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179 - Empathy in Dating

Register for Managing the Emotional Roller Coaster of Dating workshop here.   Dating with a disability adds distinctive dimensions to the universal experience of seeking romance. This journey requires both individuals...
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178 - Finding Partners Who Value Diversity

Understanding Disability in Relationships Finding love as someone with a disability means seeking a partner who understands and celebrates your whole self, including your disability as an integral part of your...
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177 - Tips for Dating When You're Marginalized

Growing up in a marginalized community, you may face unique challenges in dating that others don’t fully understand. Social stigma can feel overwhelming, but you deserve love, connection, and joy, regardless of...
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176 - "Can You Have Sex?"

Asking someone with a disability about their sexual capabilities is profoundly dehumanizing and ableist, revealing a deeply problematic view that reduces individuals to their physical conditions rather than...
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175 - Lean Into the Cringe: Dating Through Discomfort

Dating with a disability introduces unique challenges that center around vulnerability and communication. The journey of connecting with potential partners is often marked by a delicate dance of self-disclosure, where...
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174 - Why Dating Should Be Seen as a Quality of Life Issue

Dating and Disability: An Overlooked Quality of Life Issue Dating and relationships are a critical yet often overlooked aspect of disability advocacy, playing a vital role in the quality of life for people with...
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173 - The Journey of Dating Matters More Than the Destination

Dating begins with recognizing your desire for meaningful connection amid today's complex landscape of apps and social expectations. Initial doubts and insecurities surface, revealing that the journey is as much about...
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172 - Before You Date

Are you tired of endless swiping and dates that feel more like job interviews? You're not alone. Today we're exploring why your path to meaningful relationships doesn't begin with the perfect profile picture – it...
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171 - Your Body and Dating

Register here for Dating Made Easier and the Doing the Impossible in Dating workshop on January 8. People with disabilities can transform their dating lives by healing body shame and embracing their authentic selves....
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