84 - 5 Things I Stopped Doing That Led to Ultimate Dating Success
If you have been listening to me or following me for any length of time, you know that what I want most for people is to have success in dating and relationships. I see the mission of my life’s work to move the needle so that people with disabilities or the disabled, whichever you prefer, are more easily viewed and accepted as dating and relationship partners.
That’s why we now have the Dating Made Easier membership for people to give people skills and support to make dating more easy and enjoyable, while helping you get the results you’ve been longing for.
Many times when we think about achieving a goal, we think about all the things we need to do in order to have success. And yes with dating there are a lot of thing you have to do like working up the courage to put yourself out there, work on your own belief about what you deserve, and figure out exactly how you're going to meet people.
But sometimes when we’re pursuing a goal, the things we stop doing can get us to success even quicker. I was reflecting on this in my own life and realized there were five clear things I stopped doing that directly led to my version of ultimate dating success, meeting my husband.
Check out Episode 1 for our first date story.
Here are the five things I stopped doing:
- I stopped being open to long distance relationships and narrowed the radius of the location of my potential matches.
- I stopped thinking younger men would not be interested in me.
- I stopped believing that someone’s discomfort with my disability was about me and withdrawing because of someone’s discomfort with me.
- I stopped giving in to thoughts that would not serve me in the moment
- I stopped refusing to take risks to say what I really felt.
What might you need to stop doing in order to get the dating success you’ve been longing for? Are there things you’re doing that you know in your heart of hearts is holding you back from the love and belonging you know you deserve?
Check out our Dating Memberships:
Dating Made Easier (for all people wanting to date) - is a monthly membership for anyone (with or without disabilities) who wants support and guidance in dating skills and getting the RESULTS you want in dating and relationships. Click here to learn more.
Supporting Dating and Relationships membership (for special educators and professionals in disability services) - is for professionals in the disability field who are looking for training and resources to effectively help students/people with disabilities in developing dating and relationship skills. Click here to learn more.
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