Dating Resources - Memberships, Coaching & Guides


Date with confidence, knowing all you have to offer.

Radiant Abilities empowers people to increase self-esteem and confidence in dating, relationships, and sexuality.

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Dating can be tough, but it's worth it when you find the right person. Societal attitudes, low self-esteem, and confidence issues can make dating difficult, but the messages we tell ourselves have the biggest impact on our dating success.

Start your journey with Radiant Abilities as your guide.

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Dating Made Easier Community

(For Individuals)

Dating Made Easier is a monthly membership that will teach you dating and relationship skills that will transform you and your dating journey in the following areas:

Increase Dating Self-Esteem

Learn how to identify your unique power to attract the dating experiences and relationships you want.

Grow Your Confidence

Develop confidence and achieve your specific dating and relationship goals.

Learn Skills to Keep Relationships

Gain the skills in communication, problem-solving and being authentic in relationships.

The Support You'll Receive:

  • Monthly workshops on dating skills and challenges.
  • Monthly brainstorming sessions to work through dating issues.
  • Additional resource guides to help you apply dating skills.
  • Networking meeting for group members to connect and work on communication skills.

 

When you join Dating Made Easier, you get access to the entire library of past trainings and recorded live sessions. Topics include:

  • Coping with Dating Burnout
  • Developing Healthy Sexuality
  • Problem Solving and Conflict Resolution
  • Increasing Confidence and Self-Esteem for Dating
  • Creating a Dating Plan for Results

 

Learn more about Dating Made Easier Membership

Resources for Professionals and Families

 

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Empowering Healthy Relationships for People with Disabilities

A Dating and Relationship Curriculum

Empowering Healthy Relationships for People with Disabilities: A Dating and Relationship Curriculum, focuses on supporting dating and relationship skills for people with disabilities.

This resource provides a complete system of lessons, videos, and resource material for supporting skills in dating and healthy relationship development, particularly for individuals with disabilities. Lessons foster self-esteem, confidence, decision-making, and problem-solving as they relate to dating, relationships, and disability. The curriculum includes 16 video lessons, accompanying worksheets, discussion guides, and other resources.

Lessons include:

  • Dating and Relationships is Really a Self-Esteem Issue
  • Importance of Being Safe and Strong in Relationships
  • How to Meet People
  • Rising Above Sexual Ableism
Get the Curriculum
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Supporting Dating and Relationships Membership

(For Professionals and Families)

Many professionals and family members of people with disabilities want and need ongoing support to help people in successful dating and relationship building. That's why we created Supporting Dating and Relationships.

When you join the membership, you get access to the following each month:

  • A new training focused on skill development for dating and relationships.
  • A new resource to strengthen skills and insight.
  • A networking session for support and to meet others.
  • Deep dive into a curriculum lesson from Empowering Healthy Relationships for People with Disabilities.

Upon joining the membership, you get complete access to Empowering Healthy Relationships for People with Disabilities: A Dating and Relationship Curriculum, which focuses on supporting dating and relationship skills for people with disabilities. This resource provides a complete system of lessons, videos, and resource material for supporting skills in dating and healthy relationship development, particularly for individuals with disabilities. Lessons foster self-esteem, confidence, decision-making, and problem-solving as they relate to dating, relationships, and disability. The curriculum includes 16 video lessons, accompanying worksheets, discussion guides, and other resources.

Lessons include:

  • Dating and Relationships is Really a Self-Esteem Issue
  • Importance of Being Safe and Strong in Relationships
  • How to Meet People
  • Rising Above Sexual Ableism
Learn more about Supporting Dating and Relationships Membership

Free Resources to Assist You on Your Dating Journey


Three Essentials to Make Dating Easier Guide

Feeling overwhelmed by dating?

Sometimes you just need to get down to the essentials.

This guide will help you get clarity on three areas in dating you have a lot of control over to help you get the results you want in the dating scene.

Download "Three Essentials to Make Dating Easier" Guide

How to Write a Kick Butt Dating Profile

Many people think of a dating profile as being for potential dates to read and decide if they want to get to know you. While that is true, the dating profile gives you great clarity on your strengths and what you’re looking for in dating and relationships. Writing a profile helps you get clear on the strengths and assets you bring to dating and relationships.

And if you are dating with a disability, learn ways to disclose it in your dating profile.

Download "How to Write a Kick Butt Dating Profile"

Affirmations for Dating Confidently (and why they work!)

Dating, sexuality, and healthy relationships begin with you and how you feel about yourself. Please use this guide sheet to implement healthy and positive views about yourself in regard to dating, sexuality and relationships. Use this PDF guide as a resource for strengthening your skills to live the life you want and have the relationships you want. If you’re a professional, use this guide with the people you work with. If you’re a family member, you can also use it to support your loved one.

Download "Affirmations for Dating Confidently" Guide

Healthy Sexuality and Relationships

Healthy relationships and sexuality begin with you and how you feel about yourself.

Use this guide sheet to implement healthy and positive views about yourself in regards to sexuality and relationships. Use it as a resource for strengthening your skills to live the life you want and have the relationships you want.

If you’re a professional, use this guide with the people you work with.

Download "Healthy Sexuality and Relationships" Guide

Guide for Initial Interactions and Dates

(Simple to more complex)

It’s sometimes hard to develop connections with people and form relationships. What can be a huge help is a little conversation. This allows people to get to know you and the wonderful person you are. This guide offers conversation starters to begin those connections. Use this as a resource for strengthening your confidence to have the relationships you want.

If you’re a professional, use this guide with the people you work with.

Download "Initial Interactions and Dates" Guide

How to Meet People

When people are trying to date, the question that usually comes up is how do you actually meet someone. 

This guide will help you brainstorm ideas and make a plan to meet the kind of people you want to meet.

Download "How to Meet People" Guide